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Jenny and Nigel Heath

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Dear Nigel, Thanks for the email. Things seem to be going a lot better. From my perspective it feels like a lightbulb went off recently and I can finally see a bit clearer. Its made me realise how lucky I am to be in the relationship I am in, and it feels like we're both pulling towards the same goal a lot more. There is still a pile of work to be done and things are changing between us but it feels pretty positive. We're planning a two week holiday after Christmas to take time out from the every day craziness of our lives. Right now I think we've still got a lot of communication between the two of us to do, but we'll certainly be in touch if we need extra help.

 

Thank you for the insight that you gave us -it has certainly helped me to stabilise myself..

PH (London)
 

Hi there, 
So sorry for the delay in getting back to you.
 
I do want to say THANK YOU.  Things are soooo much better in our marriage now.  C's anger has really subsided and he is being kind to me. I remember when I first heard you speak in Richmond you said that if a couple cherish each other the marriage will be fine.  Well I feel much more cherished now. 
I do hope business is going well for you. The work you do is very important. 
You met a couple called K and S, just to let you know they had twin boys last week, so they went on to marry and now to have a family. 
Kindest regards
HB (Surrey)

 

 

Hi Nigel and Jenny,
C informed me of her decision today, settling on OPTION 1.
I would like to extend my foremost gratitude for all the help and support you provided to us both through this difficult time in our lives.
Kind Regards
KW (Andover)

 

 

“Thank you, Jenny and Nigel, for your superb interventions when my husband and I visited you recently. It was the best intervention we’ve ever had, because of the sophistication and accuracy of your insights, your practical advice, and the safe space you were able to create with us. I feel so relieved to find something so wonderful that I would like to see you weekly! I still don’t know if my husband and I are going to split or not; what I do really know is that we will be OK no matter what. What a relief. It’s beyond words to say.”
S Garfield. (London)


Hi Jenny and Nigel
I would just like to thank you for your time this morning. I’m sorry I must have sounded so angry, which primarily is bourne of the suppression of so many feelings and frustration at the catch 22 situation we have found ourselves in. You certainly gave us much food for thought and I really hope that it isn't too late for us, I most definitely want to resolve our differences because we have shared so much. However, I realise and accept that this might not be the case and believe that you have equipped me to enjoy a better future. My mantra to myself as I walked our dog across the heath this morning was ' This is the first day of the rest of my life', and I sincerely believe this now, thank you.
Kind regards
Sandra M (Southampton)

Dear Nigel & Jenny
Just wanted to say thanks for the excellent session the other day. I too, didn't think it would go that way but I feel like a weight has been lifted and I feel really positive. I think its the first time I have been able to completely get to the real issues. I felt it was really beneficial and perhaps was the right time to discuss it with of course the right people. Can’t thank you enough.
Best wishes
Lisa G. (Milton Keynes)

Nigel & Jenny
Once again thank you so much for your expertise. As I reached home I realised that there are several things that I recognise after my session with you:

· Optimism

· Surprise at what happened, compared to my guesses

· I own the solution, rather than I know what the solution should be

· A distinct feeling of freedom

I look forward to several pennies dropping over the next few days and weeks, but currently feel more relaxed and confident that I can reduce the ‘tension issue’ in future.

All the best  
Ed B. (Whitchurch)
 

Hi Nigel and Jenny
Just thought I'd let you know about yesterday - we had a meeting about J, prior to his going to junior school in September. I could feel myself getting anxious about it (and worried that because it had been a long time since I'd seen you, the 'therapy' would have worn off!!). But guess what? It was absolutely fine. I was actually able to put a sentence together and share my concerns about him starting the new school, and could answer any questions they asked me, without dissolving into a heap. So thank you very much! Onward and upward...
Regards
 
Catherine S (Southampton)

 

You can’t believe everything you read!

That’s unfortunately true - so before we publish anyone’s comment on this site, we make sure we have evidence of who made these statements and when.  

.. and what they say as they leave

‘I understand what’s been going on.’

‘I wish we’d seen you years ago!’

‘I am so much clearer about what I want.’

‘We have some ways to work together now to mend our relationship.’

‘You’ve given us back control of our lives.’

Things people say on first meeting us

‘Are we ‘normal?’

‘I’ve never spoken about this with anyone else.’

‘I feel a failure for not sorting this out by myself.’

‘I feel a bit foolish, worrying about this.’